Potty Trained but Still Having Accidents at School? Here's What Parents Should Know

Potty Trained but Still Having Accidents at School? Here's What Parents Should Know

If your child is potty trained but suddenly having accidents during the school day, you're not alone—and you're not doing anything wrong. In fact, accidents during the transition to preschool or kindergarten are incredibly common, even for kids who seemed fully trained at home.

Whether it’s nerves, distraction, or a totally new environment, it’s normal for young children to need time to adjust.

Let’s talk about why it happens—and how you can help your child feel more confident and prepared.

Why Potty Accidents Happen at School

Here are some of the most common reasons:

1. New Environment

School bathrooms can be big, loud, unfamiliar, and sometimes far away. This can cause hesitation or delay in asking to go.

2. Distractions & Busy Schedules

Preschoolers get caught up in play or activities and ignore the urge until it’s too late.

3. Fear of Asking for Help

Some kids feel shy about telling a new adult they need the bathroom or don’t realize it’s okay to speak up.

4. Potty Training Regression

Big transitions like starting school can trigger temporary setbacks. This is completely normal and usually short-lived.

What You Can Do to Help

Talk to the Teacher

Let them know your child is trained but still adjusting. Ask how and when potty breaks happen, and whether they remind children regularly.

Practice at Home

Help your child practice:

  • Telling a grown-up when they need to go

  • Pulling down/up pants quickly

  • Using a toilet that looks more like a school one (a Folding Potty Seat can help bridge the gap)

Pack a Confidence Kit

Include:

  • Extra underwear and clothes

  • Wipes

  • A wet/dry bag

  • (Optional) A familiar Jool Baby Folding Potty Seat that your child can use at school, if permitted

Keep It Low-Pressure

Avoid punishment or shame. Instead, reassure your child that accidents are okay and that you’ll help them feel more ready next time.

What to Tell Your Child

Sometimes kids need encouragement in simple language:

“If you feel like you need to go, it’s always okay to tell your teacher.”
“Accidents happen, and you’re still learning. I’m proud of how hard you’re trying.”
“Let’s practice using the potty before snack time, just like you do at school!”

Most-Searched Potty Accident Questions

Q: My potty-trained child is having accidents at preschool. Is that normal?
A: Yes! It’s very common for children to regress or have a few accidents when starting school. It often resolves within a few weeks.

Q: Should I put my child back in pull-ups for school?
A: Not necessarily. If accidents are rare, extra clothes may be all you need. If they’re frequent, discuss options with the school so your child stays comfortable and confident.

Q: How long does it take for kids to stop having accidents at school?
A: Most kids adjust within a few weeks. Stay patient and consistent.

Accidents Are Part of the Process

Potty training isn’t just about using the toilet it’s about learning how to do it confidently in new places. School adds a whole new layer, but with reassurance, communication, and the right tools, your child will get there.

Explore Jool Baby potty training solutions to support your child at school, at home, and everywhere in between.

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