The Adaptive Toolkit for Potty Training Children with Disabilities

We’re honored to support The Adaptive Toolkit for Potty Training Children with Disabilities—a groundbreaking resource designed to empower families on the potty training journey.

Created by Allison Jandu, The Potty Training Consultant, in collaboration with medical experts, parent advocates Taryn Lagonigro and Jess Quarello of Extra Lucky Moms, and real families from the disability community, this book meets families where they are with understanding and actionable guidance.

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With compassion and clarity, The Adaptive Toolkit transforms potty training from overwhelming to achievable—for every child.

At its core, this toolkit embraces what “adaptive” truly means—modifying the process to fit each unique child. Just like a wheelchair or an AAC device helps a child thrive, the tools and strategies in this book are tailored to help every child build independence and confidence through potty training.

  • Author Allison Jandu

    Allison is a highly sought-after potty training consultant who has guided thousands of families through one of childhood’s most significant milestones—potty training. Her expertise spans across children of all ages and abilities.
  • Taryn Lagonigro & Jess Quarello, Contributors

    The ELM brand was founded in 2021 by Taryn Lagonigro and Jess Quarello to support caregivers in the disability community and educate others on the worth of individuals with disabilities. Now among the largest community of its kind, ELM represents countless common and rare disabilities, with over 50 million social media impressions and growing.
  • Dr Michelle Sirak, Pediatric Physiatrist

    After completing college at Rutgers University and medical school at UMDNJ-Robert Wood Johnson Dr Sirak went on to complete her residency in physiatry at Columbia and then specialize in pediatrics through an additional 2 year fellowship at Montefiore Medical Center.    
  • Lora Jackle, OTL/R, Pediatric Occupational Therapist

    Lora Jackle is a pediatric occupational therapist and a manager of a busy outpatient rehabilitation services team at a large hospital in Virginia. She is a graduate of the Virginia Partners in Policymaking program, and as such is a trained Virginia advocate for people with disabilities.
  • Brittany Steindl, DPT, Pediatric Physical Therapist

    Dr. Brittany Nardone, PT, DPT is a dedicated and highly skilled pediatric physical therapist and the owner of BLS Child Development Center in River Vale, NJ. She specializes in child development, neurodivergent support, and milestone mastery, helping children gain confidence and independence in movement.
  • Sarah Bossio, Certified Sleep Consultant

    Sarah Bossio is the founder and lead sleep expert of Your Zen Baby Sleep. She works with exhausted parents of children ages 0-8 years old, to establish peaceful bedtimes and to teach them to sleep through the night.
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